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Caring for Children
Practical advice on caring for a black
child.
With
thanks from http://www.bathnes.gov.uk
It is
not sufficient that we think about the needs of Black and
Minority Ethnic children and young people as merely providing
the right foods, skin care and hair products but also to address
their emotional and social needs. In looking after Black and
Minority Ethnic children and young people we need to respect
their variation, and seek balance between familiarity, new
experiences and culturally based traditions which is comfortable
for the child or young person concerned. Therefore, the care
provided to Black Minority Ethnic children and young people
should be delivered in a manner that encompasses the following
needs:
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Physical needs, which may include:
clothing, hair, skin care, health, food.
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Emotional needs may include:
personal feeling, spiritual, feeling isolated, self-awareness,
self-esteem and racial Identity. Cultural needs may include:
religion, history, identity, and language.
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Social needs may include:
participating in community groups, involvement with cultural
festivals and recreational activities.
In implementing good
practice, carers need to acknowledge their own personal commitment by:
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Maintaining their own awareness
through training;
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Respecting Black and Minority
Ethnic children and young people's life experiences;
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Taking into account the particular
needs of children and young people in relation to their race,
culture, religion and language; valuing each child or young person
as an individual with individual needs;
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Where possible encourage Black
children and young people to maintain links with other Black people,
e.g. African Caribbean and Asian people;
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Encourage Black and Minority Ethnic
children and young people to find out positive aspects about his or
her culture;
This document is not
intended to stereotype Black and Minority Ethnic children and young
people; many may be unaware of any culture other than the British
culture. Similarly, others may have different cultures but feel they
relate more to the British culture due to the lack of knowledge,
understanding and participation within their community groups and
separation from their own ethnic group.
Skin Care
All children and adults
need to pay attention to skin care. People's skin differs in colour,
texture and types. However, appropriate care of a Black child or young
persons skin is an important part of caring for their well-being and
should not be neglected. Black people's skin is often naturally dry due
to the climate condition and natural make up of the skin and needs to be
cared for by regularly moisturising with creams and lotions. This is
even more prevalent during the winter months when the skin is often more
at risk from excess dryness, left neglected it can often develop cracks.
Not recognising or acknowledging a Black child or young persons need for
appropriate skin care products could have a long-term effect on their
self-image and self esteem.
You can care for a
Black individual's skin by obtaining the right products;
Using oil based
products, body lotions, creams specially developed for Black skins e.g.
Cocoa Butter can help to relieve skin dryness and keep skin supple. Some
every day body lotions and creams can be used to help relieve skin
dryness but are often not as effective;
Black skin is very
sensitive therefore avoid using alcohol base products as these can
further dry the skin. Lotion/creams should be applied on a daily basis
(sometimes more than once a day) especially to the face, arms and legs
as these areas tend to get very dry. Using bath oils in the bath is also
helpful to keep the skin soft. However, care should be taken not to use
too much oil as this can make the skin appear greasy;
Particular attention
should be paid to the skin after showering and bathing, Skin that has
not been moisturised can often have an ashen appearance.
Exposure to the Sun
Climate changes can
affect the skin. It is often thought that because of skin colour Black
people cannot get sunburnt. Black people can and do frequently suffer
from sunburn if exposed to the sun for long periods.
Sun protection creams
should be used to protect against sunburn. For babies and young children
use a high factor sun cream.
Hair Care
In all cultures, hair
grooming is an important part of a persons every day personal care and
appearance and should not be overlooked. Adolescence is a time of great
change that often presents some difficulties. For most young people
appearance matters and becomes a real issue, it is important to feel
right, and look right, as this often affects the way they are seen by
others. Too often the hair care of Black children and young people being
looked after is neglected as most workers and carers have little, or no
knowledge about it's care and perceive it to be difficult to manage.
A foster carer
caring for a child of dual heritage (age 3) said
" I did not know
where to start with her hair, the social worker wasn't any help, she was
with me for several weeks before I got up the courage to ask a Black
mother at the school for advice. I knew it needed combing and that is
all I did and bunched it into a ponytail, because it was so dry. She
gave me some tips on what I should use and now we try a different style
every day"
Often children who
have been removed from their birth families and communities at a young
age have not acquired the necessary skills, knowledge and information on
how to care for their own hair, e.g. what hair products to use etc and
therefore often cannot offer any guidance to their carers.
You can assist in
the care of a Black or Minority Ethnic child and young person's hair by
for example:
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combing the hair morning and night
helps to keep it manageable and free of knots. Use a wide tooth comb
for grooming the hair if necessary;
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hair dryers can be used to dry the
hair, hair creams should be applied first and care must be taken not
to over dry the hair as this can cause the hair to break;
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after swimming always shampoo and
condition the hair, and use hair creams to moisturise the hair;
You will need to be
aware that for some Black children and young people because of religious
beliefs, hair should not be cut i.e. Rastafarian and Sikhs.
Clothing
The way young people
dress is often a reflection of their own personal identity, culture,
identification with a peer group, or a fashion trend. Some young people
their belonging to a particular sports team. Through the cloths or label
they wear. Preferring a particular label of clothing shows an alliance
to a type of music group or singer.
Young people being
looked after are no different to other young people in their need to
express themselves through dress, and may often experience peer pressure
to comfort with the latest street fashion. Other young people who do not
dress in the latest fashion or wear the popular label or brand of
clothing are made to feel out of fashion and not in with their peers.
Children and young
people from Black and Minority Ethnic communities have particular
clothing which identifies them with the culture of their community, but
often some young people choose to dress in clothing like other young
people which also reflects their identity with music, sport etc, but
modify to maintain the basic understanding of dress in their culture,
for example, not showing their legs and bare arms.
You can help by
raising your own awareness of young people's fashion and latest trends;
encouraging young people to develop their own self-image;
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Having knowledge of the different
dress codes belonging to various cultures;
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Complimenting young people on their
choice of dress, make them feel good, about what they are wearing;
offer advice to young people about what suits them and what doesn't;
accompanying young people when they go shopping for clothes.
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